Many people love the icing on the cake. I’ve even seen some kids just eat the icing and leave the cake on the plate. But the way cakes are created, it’s best to eat both, and too much icing is not good for you! Sex is a bit like the icing on the cake. You need the cake with all its flour & eggs and other goodies to make the cake, then the icing on the cake is the final ambien topping. And it’s not the key ingredient. In our relationships, we need to have lots of ingredients to make it successful, and sex is the icing on the cake, after the wedding. Sex has been designed by God for married couples, as a part of a healthy relationship, and in the marriage covenant. And God’s way is always the best way.